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Things I look for In middle school I used to get crushes on the "hot" guys or the "cute, adorable" guys, but somewhere along the way I gave up on liking guys because of my insecurity and the knowledge none of them like me, I shouldnt like them. So, I began only liking guys who I had a hint liked me. Now, the only way I knew how to figure out if they liked me is if they talk to me, and are nice to me. Now you have to realize that nobody talked to me in middle school, and when they did, it was either to make someone laugh or they got ridiculed for it so they abruptly stopped. So if someone genuinely talked to me and said hi to me in the hallways, they liked me. Now in high school, thats harder to do though. If you like every guy that talks to you, you will get hurt just like in middle school. So, now you have to go back to setting guidelines like what they look like or how they act. So this got me thinking of what I look for in a guy. I have to have a list or something, because thats just me. Although when I make this, Ill break it completely by liking the complete opposite. Just watch. Anyways, so here we go: 1. First of all, they have to talk to me, or get my attention some how. Most of the guys I have liked have just talked to me, but the last guy I liked moved here from maine and was just different than anyone in the room, so that got my attention. 2. They have to be outgoing. Since I am really introverted and quiet, I need the opposite to keep the conversation going. 3. Being outgoing may be hard to go with this one, but I want a guy who has a small group of friends. Since I am insecure, a guy who has a bunch of friends and most of them are girls, I will just annoy the crap out of him by being jealous. 4. Competitive. I can be competitive, and it just makes things more interesting if they are competitive also. 5. Not a sore loser. If he loses a game or something, he wont beat me up for it. 6. Doesnt go with the norm. I always go for the outcasts...well not always, but ever since the beginning of high school I have. It sort of went with my not bothering idea. And if hes not an outcast, has something different about him. He doesnt feel like he has to like sports and cars, and is just himself. 7. A quick mind, that way if there is nothing to say, he can think of something to talk about and make it less awkward. 8. Isnt loved by all. Once again, I get jealous...very easily. 9. Is not judgemental. He wont care if I like country or pop. That also goes with not being a racist and not being a homophobe. 10. Can deal with going slow. 11. A little bit romantic. I dont want roses everyday or love letters, I just want him to say I love you at the right moment, or for us to have "a song", sappy stuff like that. 12. Isnt sarcastic all the time. Like every once in a while you can be sarcastic if you absolutely are sure that the other person will know you are being sarcastic, but all the time doesnt work. And make like a different face or make a different voice so someone could tell the difference. 13. Likes kids. I was in front of this guy and his daughter at bush gardens, and he was just so sweet to her. He would say things like "Your so brave, I wasnt this brave when I was your age". It just made me smile. 14. Low voice. Gets me all the time. 15. Can make anything entertaining. For instance, he would make jokes and keep you laughing during tedious house work or something like that. 16. Is liked by my family. Not too hard to do unless your twice my age, a smoker, and tells me I should get raped. 17. Will actually think about me sometimes. Not all the time, just every once in a while. 18. Not full of himself. Maybe every once in a while he will be cocky when hes being competitive and thats fine, but when everythings noramal, he cant be talking about himself constantly. I mean, if he even talks about himself mostly that would be fine, but not all the time... These things will make you look better to me, but I have liked guys with only half of these, so they arent necessary. Some things I just dont care about though are: 1. If he watches porn or not. As long as he doesnt go out and get with these girls or doesnt like them more than me, I can handle the porn thing. 2. If he masturbates. I know its a guy thing, and if he wants to masturbate, go ahead. Ill even sit back and watch. :) 3. What he looks like. I go after the loners alot of times and I have realized that the ones that dont look perfect are usually nicer than the ones who are so called "perfect". They built up this quality because either 1) people will like them if they are nice or 2) they know how it feels to have someone be a jackass to them. 4. What kind of music he likes. I usually get into whatever another person likes, and so it wouldnt matter. And from those you can come up with the things I do not want in a guy. People say that if you make a list of the things you look for in a guy, you can tell what qualities you lack. My want for a guy to like me is a perfect example. I dont love myself and so that is my biggest thing. And also I am not outgoing, so I want a guy who is outgoing. Some of the things on my list are qualities I have though, so according to experts, I may have those things lower on a top ten list or not at all. I just found that very interesting. |
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